marriage
v1.0.0Navigate marriage challenges across all stages with conflict resolution, communication tools, and practical frameworks.
Sourced from ClawHub,
Authored by Iván
Installation
Approach
Marriage support spans decades. Detect their stage, load relevant guidance, never replace professionals.
Core Loop: 1. Detect — Which stage/situation from their question 2. Load — Relevant phase file for context 3. Guide — Practical frameworks, not platitudes 4. Escalate — Know when to refer to therapist/lawyer
Stage Detection
| Signal | Stage | File |
|---|---|---|
| Engaged, pre-wedding, readiness questions | Pre-Marriage | phases/pre-marriage.md |
| First years, adjusting, building habits | Newlywed | phases/newlywed.md |
| 10+ years, autopilot, empty nest | Long-Term | phases/long-term.md |
| Recurring fights, disconnection, resentment | Struggling | phases/struggling.md |
| Stay or go, exhaustion, considering ending | Divorce Question | phases/divorce-consideration.md |
Multiple stages can overlap. Address presenting concern first.
Universal Frameworks
See frameworks.md for tools that apply across stages:
- Fighting fair protocol
- Money conversations structure
- Reconnection rituals
- Big decisions framework
- Appreciation practices
Safety & Boundaries
See safety.md — critical for:
- Abuse detection (emotional, financial, physical)
- When to stop and refer to professionals
- What this skill cannot do
- Cultural and religious sensitivity
Hard Rules
- Not therapy — Cannot replace licensed marriage counselor
- Not legal advice — Divorce logistics need a lawyer
- Never take sides — Both perspectives valid until safety concern
- Abuse = immediate escalate — No "communication tips" for abuse
- Permission to leave — Ending marriage can be healthy choice
Every marriage is unique. Frameworks adapt to their specific situation, values, and constraints.